Courstiship and way to happy marriage 1

Courtship is the period of courting especially with the view to marriage. Also is a relationship as trhe stage to marriage with romantic relation between two different sex, boy and girl.

Courtship takes a position of two people having no physical contact romantically which stimulate sex, no kissing until marriage. Courtship advocates claim that courtship allows the two people to know each other in truth, in more platonic setting without the pleasure o0f physical intimacy.

A person may ask how long should courtship take

 Is is suggested that courtship should take nearly two years but not more than four years.

Remember if you really need happy life in marriage you need to be careful in the choice you make before marriage because people are like chameleons they do change, imitate and act. And if you do it due to sexual desire, you will cry all of your life or break up the relationship which is not good.

We have to know that when looking for the partner, you are not looking for a perfect person or a girl and boy who is like an angel because every one has his or her weakness.

•    Error made by many before marriage in courtship

v   MEN

• Other men do look on external appearance (Beauty) as the basic criteria for a good wife though is important but should not be the basic one because once the behavior is bad even the all beauty will change
•      Other men are driven by sexual desire (infatuation) many people confuse infatuation and love, in short; infatuation always lead to sex as the basic goal for the relationship as the story of Amnon in the bible in book of 2 Samuel 13:1-19.
• Other men  because they are famous that they can get any girl they like. The reason behind is that girls do like men who are famous but no because of goodness my friend you have to know this if you are famous and you think like this you have calm down and see is that girl loving you with the true love or is there anything behind

v  GIRLS( WOMEN)

• ü     Some girls are married because the o0ne who approach them has wealth and because they like luxurious life they see its better to be married by that one but in heart there is the one though he might be poor but he real touch her heart that’s why you find some of married women having relationship with someone who is not rich, as this happen you may ask yourself why is this happening if you look and ask is there anything that this woman is missing? You see that everything is there.
• ü   Others are married due to the external force and influence from parents. Once they say its better to be married by that boy i9f you need to make us happy and if a girl need not to get her parents sad she decide to be married by  that man in heart no love. Other influence comes from friend if they are married and she is let alone, the only way which is seen is anyone who come with the intension of marriage is accepted without knowing there is the sorrow and regret .

• ü  Age passing fear, some of girls are married because they afraid of getting old as the days pass on they keep themselves open that whoever comes they accept regardless of the weaknesses of the boy.

in next post we shall see what shoul a girl look in a man ans man the same